El Hogar Graduation (November 2016) – A Farewell and Final Thoughts

I wanted to share some final thoughts as I wrap up this exciting week of graduation (and clausura) activities in Honduras.

Over the three ceremonies, the students of El Hogar have further reinforced my pride in the organization I work for. Many of them had tears in their eyes when they would talk about their experiences and how much El Hogar means to them. They are well aware of the opportunities they’ve been given in our care, but they are by no means complacent.

They work hard each day and utilize the resources at their fingertips to learn all they can and to make their dreams reality – a fact that our supporters should be very proud of. They also thrive on the love and support they get from our amazing Honduran staff members who work tirelessly each day to ensure that each and every one of our students knows – really knows – that they are special.

The students who graduated this week are taking the skills they’ve learned back into their communities. Some of them come from places that are almost completely cut off from the outside world, while others come from the overflowing streets of Tegucigalpa. Each of their stories may be different, but they all now have one important thing in common – they are all El Hogar graduates. As I said before, their roads will be filled with twists and turns, but they now have the skills and values to handle them.

For our elementary students, their clausura marked an important point in their lives. They’re moving onto their next phase at El Hogar to continue their education and to begin to gain the practical skills they will need to find success after they graduate in the years to come.

We celebrated the hard work of our students this week as the academic year at El Hogar came to a close, but that doesn’t mean our work takes a break. Many of our students will spend the holidays at our Elementary School in Tegucigalpa, because they either have no family to return home to or their homes are too unsafe. They will spend time resting and celebrating with their El Hogar brothers and sisters, and with the staff who think of them as extended members of their own families.

I’m proud to be a small part of that extended family. It breaks my heart to say goodbye to the amazing students I see in photos and write about to share their stories. It’s hard to leave Honduras, but I look forward to returning and seeing (or hearing) more stories of change in the lives of the children of El Hogar.

To those who support us and our work, thank you. For those of you who haven’t yet, we invite you to click here to begin changing the lives of these children today. The investment you make in them – no matter the amount – is an investment that will pay dividends for years and generations to come.

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El Hogar Graduation (November 2016) – Clausura at El Hogar’s Elementary School

During almost each day of this trip, we’ve been traveling outside the city of Tegucigalpa to celebrate graduation ceremonies at El Hogar’s Agricultural School and Technical Institute. Today, we didn’t have to travel far for the last of the week’s celebrations – the Elementary School’s clausura. The clausura is a celebration for the students completing their time at the Elementary School as they prepare to enter one of El Hogar’s secondary education programs.

For those of you who have traveled to El Hogar, you know how the elementary campus is an island of calm and peace in the chaos of Tegucigalpa. This becomes immediately evident as you enter the gates from the streets. Once they close, you’re surrounded by greenery and children playing. It’s a stark contrast to the busy streets just over the walls.

We arrived and I immediately got to work taking the official graduation photos of the students. Each of them was dressed to impress – the boys in crisp white shirts with black ties and the girls in white shirts and plaid skirts. They were so excited and they asked me more than once to take silly photos of them and their friends. I had a job to do, but this day is about them and I was glad to oblige.

This year, the clausura was held inside the campus cafeteria. The walls were decorated with flowers and banners, while there was a large wooden bridge for each student to stand on as they were honored during the ceremony. The room was full of chairs and they quickly filled up with the honorees’ fellow students, family, friends, and other honored guests.

Speakers included Claudia Castro, Director of the Elementary School, the Rev. Matthew Engleby, Executive Director of El Hogar in Honduras, Liz Kinchen, Executive Director of El Hogar in North America, a representative from DINAF, which is a government agency in Honduras that looks after vulnerable children, and a former student. As with each of the speeches at the earlier graduation ceremonies, the speakers reflected on the hard work of each student and the promise they each have as they begin this next phase of their education at El Hogar.

The pride on each student’s face (along with some blushing as they had to stand in front of everyone) showed how much this day really meant to each of them. During the presentations, some of the students’ dreams were shared and they’re amazing. They want to be doctors, lawyers, and other respected professionals. They’re so proud of their accomplishments and it warms my heart to see each of them not just trying to squeak by, but reaching for the stars. But for all of their excitement, there was also a feeling of a changing dynamic among them.

Up until this point, they’ve all been on the same campus. That won’t be the case when the next school year begins. The boys will either go to the Agricultural School or the Technical Institute, while the girls enter the Virginia Sapp high school program and move to their new home in Santa Lucia. They’ll see each other at school-wide functions and campus visits, but it won’t be the same. Like those students before them and most families, they’ll still have strong connections to each other over the distance that will separate them. They’re one big El Hogar family.

I can’t believe I’m already saying this, but tomorrow I leave to return to my home in Boston. I’ll share some final thoughts about this year’s graduation tomorrow.

El Hogar Graduation (November 2016) – Graduation at El Hogar’s Technical Institute

The morning saw us once again traveling out of Tegucigalpa. This time, we traveled north of Tegucigalpa to the Amarateca Valley to El Hogar’s Technical Institute (ITSM). Driving along the CA5 – congested as it weaves its way out of the city – you look along the hillsides that line the road with their slopes filled with ramshackle houses of every color stacked on top of each other.

The further you go north, the hillsides become less congested and greener. Eventually, you turn off the highway and travel down a winding dirt road (sometimes being met by a herd of cattle) to enter the walls of ITSM.

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The time when the official graduation photos are taken – something that always happens before the ceremony – is very special. Each graduate poses for their photo and the pride they have is evident in their smiles on each face. These photos mark a moment in time that none of them will ever forget. It’s also a time filled with a lot of behind the scenes joking between the graduates as they each try to make the others laugh while photos are taken.

The photos are a more private moment caught in time, but the graduation ceremony is the complete opposite. Following a Eucharist service – something held before each El Hogar graduation – the graduates’ friends and family gathered in the ITSM auditorium for the ceremony.

Each graduate donned the bright blue gowns and caps, and sat on the stage as a variety of speakers lauded their hard work, gave sage advice, and expressed how the students would be missed. Lazaro Juarez, Director of ITSM, the Rev. Matthew Engleby, Executive Director of El Hogar in Honduras, and Liz Kinchen, Executive Director of El Hogar in North America, all spoke passionately – the care they have for each student evident on their faces and in their words. As each graduate received their diploma, their fellow honorees joined with their friends and family to applaud their accomplishment.

After the last diploma was handed out, it was time to celebrate with delicious food and conversation before the graduates left with their family members and friends.

In Honduras, there are small, three-wheeled vehicles called moto-taxis (also known as tuk-tuks) that serve as small transports through the cities or down very long side roads. As we turned out of the road to ITSM to travel back to Tegucigalpa, several students were waiting with their families next to the moto-taxis they’d taken to the road. Their faces were filled with emotions, but their smiles gave away their anticipation for beginning this next chapter in their lives.

Each one of them has a story filled with difficult beginnings, but they each also found hope at El Hogar. They take that hope and their potential with them as they enter the world as graduates.

Tomorrow, the El Hogar clausura at the Elementary School will celebrate the students who will be moving up to begin their next El Hogar journey.

El Hogar Graduation (November 2016) – Graduation at El Hogar’s Agricultural School

The differences between Tegucigalpa and Talanga couldn’t be greater. Tegucigalpa is thick with smog, choked with traffic, and full of people. On the other hand, Talanga is a sea of green with exotic birds singing, farm animals grazing, and vistas that show the natural beauty of Honduras. El Hogar’s Agricultural School, which is in Talanga, provided an unforgettable backdrop for the first of this week’s graduation ceremonies.

Pulling into the school after the long drive, we could immediately see the preparations that had been made. Streamers and graduation signs were hung throughout the open-air pavilion as chairs sat on the sawdust floor awaiting the friends, family members, and sponsors of the students who were being honored.

After official graduation photos were taken, it was time for the ceremony to begin. The graduates – dressed up with ties and wearing their blue gowns and caps – made their way up the aisle to their seats of honor at the front. Yony Aguilera, Director of the Agricultural School, and the Rev. Matthew Engleby, Executive Director of El Hogar in Honduras, both spoke and honored the graduates for their hard work over the years to reach this day.

For these students, this marks a turning point in their lives. This is when they have the chance to use the skills they’ve gained in animal care and crop production outside of El Hogar. As with each graduation, you could see an array of emotions on the faces of the graduates as they came to the realization that their lives were about to enter a new phase. But as the ceremony ended and the diplomas were distributed, all of their expressions turned to those of joy and excitement.

As the last of the graduates filed down the aisle, the ceremony came to an end and everyone in the audience rushed to congratulate their special honoree. This is one of the parts of the entire day that brings tears to my eyes. Families and friends were hugging the graduates with smiles on their faces and tears falling down their cheeks.

For many of these families, these graduates represent the first family members to graduate from school. As I watched each of them leave with their families, I thought about the hope and promise that they carried with them. Their lives – like each of us – will be filled with twists and turns, but they’ve received skills and values to help them handle them. They now can teach the skills they’ve learned to their families and communities. That’s how they bring positive change and break the cycle of poverty.

Tomorrow, we celebrate graduation at El Hogar’s Technical Institute in the Amarateca Valley.

El Hogar Graduation (November 2016) – A Great Welcome to Honduras

There’s nothing more exciting than getting on a plane to go and celebrate. This is especially true when it comes to graduation at El Hogar. Flying to Honduras is not an easy task – connecting flights are (mostly) required. However, the early morning alarm and long security lines are all worth it to see each of the students being honored on their special day.

After flying from Boston to Miami, then over Cuba and the crystal blue waters of the Caribbean, we finally touched down in Tegucigalpa. After meeting with the other sponsors attending graduation and Matthew Engleby, El Hogar’s Executive Director in Honduras, we made our way to our home away from home for the next few days. After a short break to catch our breaths, we rode through the old colonial streets of Tegucigalpa to the Teatro Nacional Manuel Bonilla – an architectural treasure that first opened it’s doors on September 15, 1915. We had a special invitation to attend a cultural event that would feature students from various schools dancing traditional Honduran dances and playing some very catchy marimba music. Our El Hogar students were very prominently featured in the program and we couldn’t have been prouder.

As we entered the theater, some of the elementary students were selling delicious baked goods they had made earlier – the pan queso is not to be missed and will never be forgotten.

The students did a fantastic job as they performed and the audience responded with roaring applause and cheers. The boys and girls who performed from El Hogar did a great job, and it was a special opportunity to enjoy the other performers and to experience Honduran culture in a beautiful space.

It was an amazing evening, but this is just the arrival day! Tomorrow we travel just over an hour outside of Tegucigalpa to Talanga. It’s there at our Agricultural School where we’ll celebrate with each of our graduating students from that campus.

The first graduation of 2016 at El Hogar is tomorrow and I can’t wait to celebrate the accomplishments of those amazing students.

El Hogar Graduation (November 2016) – Preparing to Celebrate at El Hogar

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Jason Lang, El Hogar’s Manager of Marketing and Communications.

Graduation is such a special time for students and their families. No matter where you are in the world, the moment when that diploma is handed to the honored student marks the completion of years filled with hard work and studying. It’s the moment when the importance of the sacrifices made by families and friends to provide the support and help needed by the graduate can really be seen. Depending on the situation and location, some of those sacrifices can be greater than anyone can imagine.

Our students in Honduras come to El Hogar from situations that range from extreme poverty to abuse, unending hunger to neglect. Some of our students’ parents truly care about them and turn to us as a way for their children to break out of the cycle of poverty. Other students don’t know or have a relationship with their parents for a number of different reasons. No matter the situation, we provide all of the love and support they need to learn all they can and to eventually reach graduation.

I’m excited to be traveling back to Honduras tomorrow to be a part of the graduation festivities at three of our campuses. For the students at our Agricultural School and Technical Institute, it’s the moment they step into the world to use the skills they’ve gained to make better lives for themselves and their families. For our sixth graders, this is the moment they leave our Elementary school to take their next steps toward growing up and moving into one of our secondary education programs. This year’s graduation will also be the last before the first of our high school girls graduate and take their next steps toward adulthood.

I’ll be blogging daily about each of the graduation ceremonies and my time at El Hogar. It’s an amazing and humbling experience to be a part of each of these special days, and I want you to feel like you’re also there being a part of these turning points.

I hope you’ll take this journey with me and check back each day for updates. We fly out tomorrow!